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When traveling to another country it is important to read up on the local rules, the local culture and how not to offend the local people. I get that a lot of tourists do not take the time to do this – I live in Dubai, I come in contact with that kind of ignorant people all the time, but to me it following local rules and cultures is a basic form of respect.

Although traveling to Nepal is incredibly easy and people are exceptionally nice and engaging, there are a few points you need to keep in mind when traveling to this amazing country.

I have listed 10 things that you should never EVER do in Nepal.

Just like in parts of India, cows are actually sacred in India. Although you won’t really see cows wandering the streets of Kathmandu, you will see them live their lazy lives in temples where they are being kept and fed by local people.

Eating beef is strictly prohibited for both Hindus and Buddhists which means it would be incredibly insulting for you to eat beef in front of them. Make sure that when you bring food into the country it does not contain beef OR that you eat your beef products in private.

In most shops in Nepal you will only find Buffalo meat (Buff), chicken or Mutton (which is actually goat). Pork can be found in supermarkets or at special butcher stalls but overall it is not very easy to find local street food stalls serving pork.

Do not give begging children money

I love children, you love children, we all love children. But that does not mean we should give into kids asking for money – even though it is only one rupee.

I have read many different blogs and websites talking about the growing problem of tourists giving in to these little kids and often giving them as much as 1000 Rupees – $10 (that’s more than 12 plates of Mo:Mo).

You might feel very good about yourself for a while. After all, you helped a poor kid with a small sum of money. Well – the fact is that children being successful at begging often means that they drop out of school, or are encouraged by their parents that they should take up full-time begging.

Local schools are free in Nepal so every kid has the possibility to get some form of education. It is important that we do not give them any bad ideas about making money begging and foregoing their education.

One little Google Search will yield a massive amount of great children’s charities in Nepal that would be very happy with any small donation. If you would like to help kids, please donate to a charity or a school rather than give money to a begging kid.

Do not buy milk or rice for a begging mother

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Walking through Thamel you might be stopped by a “desperate” mother asking you to buy milk or rice for her starving baby.

My advice is: Don’t.

This is a scam ran throughout Asia with many tourists in Nepal, Myanmar and especially India falling for the starving mom act.

Basically, what happens is that a mother will stop you on the street and ask you to buy rice, oil and milk for her and her baby. They are hungry, or so she says. The tourist accepts and gets taken to a shop. The tourist will buy an expensive (to local standards) bag of rice, pot of milk, can of oil and will be pushed by the mother to buy more and more valuable items.

After the transaction is done, the mother will thank you and disappear. She will then hurry off to a local market or to a local shop where she will resell the products you just bought for her.

If you WANT to help someone I would, again, donate to a local charity.

Karl Rock – an AMAZING youtuber I follow, did a great video on this!per mattis, pulvinar dapibus leo.

Do not wear leather when visiting temples.

Planning on visiting a temple? Make sure you are not wearing leather shoes or belts. As cows are seen as holy animals in Nepal, it is rude to wear leather items when visiting a temple.

You might even be asked to leave when they notice you wearing a belt. Instead you can wear a cloth belt – the 00’s are calling (I know) but this will make it easier for you to adhere to local laws, local customs and to respect local religion.

Do not offer money and gifts with your left hand

When you are offering money or gifts to locals in Nepal you will want to use your right hand and your right hand only.

It can be very disrespectful, especially when travelling through more rural parts of Nepal, when you offer money or gifts or goods with your left hand.

When you want express that you are NOT satisfied with the product or the service, you can show this by offering money with your left hand. But do keep in mind that this is considered to be rude.

Yes, indeed: in Kathmandu and especially in Thamel people actually understand that tourists often don’t know about this and that people use their hands – left OR right, often without thinking. So although in big cities like Kathmandu and Pokhara using your left hand will not be a massive deal, you might want to keep this in mind when backpacking through rural villages.

Do not leave your shoes on when entering someone’s house

People who have travelled through Asia before will know that taking off your shoes before entering someone’s house is an absolute MUST!

It is very rude to not take off your shoes when you enter someone’s house. I remember once in Pai, Thailand – when the little Punk bar was still in the tiny hut just off the main road, that the owner (who is an amazing guy) asked customers to take off their shoes before going to the toilet as the toilet of the bar was literally this guy’s own bathroom – and we had to walk through his house!

Anyway, when you are welcomed into the house of a local, be sure to OR ask if you need to take off your shoes OR just take off your shoes anyway. Whatever you do, don’t be that rude tourist that walks into someone’s living room with shoes on.

Don’t do drugs (seriously!)

Although you might smell a familiar “green” smell in some of the Hindu temples, smoking weed or hashish is actually illegal in Nepal.

It’s true that holy men can legally smoke marijuana (Thanks Shiva) and that the stuff literally just grows on the Kathmandu hillsides, smoking weed is actually illegal and can land you in jail or with a massive fine.

Nepal is not as bad as Indonesia where drug traffickers get the death penalty, but I wouldn’t want to be caught with a joint in my hand or weed in my pocket.

When walking through the city, shady men will often try and talk to you to ultimately offer some drugs. Just kindly decline and walk on without giving them another look.

Do not say Gautam Buddha was born in India.

The Nepali people are very proud of the fact that Gautam Buddha was born in Limbini Nepal. It is a great offence to say otherwise. However, many Indian people believe that Gautam Buddha was born in India.

Why?

Well, Gautam Buddha meditated and died in India. Many Indians say India is the country of The Buddha which is in fact true (he spent massive amounts of his life there) but that does spark the lie that he was also born in India.

It would be the same is saying “Van Gogh was French and born in France” while he was actually born in The Netherlands and lived and died in France. I know quite a few Dutch people who would be very worked up when they would hear someone claim Van Gogh for the French.

Actually, it is very interesting to read up on this because both Nepali people and Indians are incredibly fierce and fiery about this discussion – and rightfully so.

Do not touch someone’s head or show the bottom of your feet

Just like in Thai culture, it can be seen as very rude to show the bottom of your feet or have the bottom of your feet turned upward.

Another thing you might want to avoid is touching someone’s head. This is also seen as very disrespectful.

Do not accept the first price you are quoted (Haggle!!!!)

Tourists can be very stupid, and taxi drivers and shop keeper shave clocked on. We were literally quoted $10 on a $2 cab ride and ultimately paid $3.

Although we knew they were taking the piss, it is important not to accept the first price you are quoted unless the price was specified beforehand in a supermarket or corner shop. Prices in tourist shops or non-metered cab fares are always negotiable!

The app Fare Finder will help you to determine a fair fare (just add 100 to 150 rupees as they will often see you as a tourist milking cow). If you think the price quoted is too high and you find it difficult to haggle it down? Just walk away. There will be more shops/cabs that will actually be open to negotiation. Walking away also shows that you are serious and might prompt the shop keeper or cab driver to chase after you with a much better offer.

It happened to us: we walked away from a cab driver and he literally followed us in his car down the street offering the original price we started negotiating from!

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